Baby Care: How To Deal With A Fussy Child


Is the child overly active? What to do to cope

It is normal for children to be restless. However, if there is inattention with excessive activity, then there is nothing to worry about! Usually 15 to 20 percent of children have this problem. However, most of these children get better with age. There is no problem if the child is restless. But if some other things are added to it, then it is a matter of thinking. Such a problem in children is called Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder.

These children's brains are not static. They cannot stay in one place for more than a few minutes. They do such things right in front of their eyes that it becomes very difficult for parents to handle them.

How to tell if your child is more active

1. Your child may run around a lot. Many children around us are running and jumping around unnecessarily. Sometimes it breaks it, doesn't stay still, doesn't sit in class, can't concentrate. They are always restless. In this case it can be difficult to handle Mishu.

2. Hyperactive children cannot stay focused for long while studying, watching TV, playing sports. In places where attention is required—in class, doing homework, standing in a line somewhere—aggressive children tend to be more impatient than other children. In this case, parents should be alert if there is any problem in the child. Then it should be verified.

3. Sometimes restless children do whatever they want, break things, touch hot things, touch electrical switches. This can lead to a dire situation for them. If someone forbids it, he will want to do it more.

4. Other symptoms include disobedience, disruption of education, misbehavior with teachers, little tantrums, anger, emotional upheaval of the child, siblings, parents, neighbors i.e. everyone starts to feel upset with the child's behavior, it means that the child is a little abnormal. fickle

What to do if the child is hyperactive

Excessive volatility should never be tolerated. Parents should keep an eye on them. Doctor's advice should be taken. Such treatment may also be required. These children will be able to lead a normal life if they follow the same medication and other rules.

And never indulge the child's fickleness. Forbid him, take time to explain what he should not do.

Proper eating habits

Scientists say these days, in the case of such children, making some changes in eating habits can get results. Children with high blood ammonia should avoid alkaline foods. Those with high lactic acid should eat less milk and dairy products. Alkaline foods are all types of pulses, vegetables, some fruits (grapefruit, amra, lemon, orange and malta), dried fish, shrimp, almonds, extra salt, soy sauce, tomato sauce, pickles, coconut, etc. In addition, soft drinks, chocolate can increase their symptoms. Hyperactive children should drink enough water. Cod liver oil has proven beneficial in these cases.

The influence of food habits on the child's behavior and psychology is many. More research is going on. It is now a proven fact that a balanced, healthy and disciplined diet is as important for the child's mind as it is for the body.

Proper use of energy

Involve young children in a variety of activities to channelize their agility. For example, enroll your child in dance, music, basketball, cricket or swimming classes.

Neurobics or mental aerobics also stimulates the brain, as well as helps improve concentration. Different types of board games, puzzle solving games can also be taught to the child. That will keep them calm for some time.

Music to calm the mind

Music therapy is used to solve various physical problems. Play soft, meditative or classical music to calm the baby's restless mind. This type of music helps to keep the brain calm. But don't forget to play hard rock music to the baby! It will have the opposite effect on the child.

Regular massage

Gentle physical touch and loving words are effective ways to stimulate endorphins. To calm a hyperactive child, gently massage their head, eyes, hands, feet and back with loving care. As a result, they will feel relieved and happy.

What you can do to get rid of the child's stubbornness

A rule of psychology is that the behavior of the child, which the parents pay attention to, will repeat the behavior. As we can give this attention through adoration or praise, fulfilling demands, it can also be through 'nudging', 'understanding'. But if you insist on buying something, buying it will only increase your insistence.

Prayer to remove stubbornness of the child

أَفَغَيْرَ دِينِ اللَّهِ يَبْغُونَ وَلَهُ أَسْلَمَ مَنْ فِي السَّمَاوَاتِ وَالْأَرْضِ طَوْعًا وَكَرْهًا وَإِلَيْهِ يُرْجَعُونَ

Pronunciation: Afagaira bi-nillahi yabgun, wallahu aslama man fis-samawati wal ardw, tauang wa karhang; Wa Ilaihi Yurzaun.

Meaning: 'Are they looking for another way of life instead of the way of life given by Allah? All that is in the heavens and the earth will obey him, whether willingly or unwillingly. All will return to Him.' (Surah Ale Imran, verse 83)

Virtues and Hadith: Whoever is hurt by a child or an animal, let him recite verse 83 of Surah Al-Imran in his ear. (Al-Muzamul Awsat Lit Tabarani, Hadith: 64)

The practice of removing the child's stubbornness

Excessive insistence of the childIf there is, if you don't listen, if you don't listen, if you put your hand on the hair on the top of the child's forehead 7 times a day and recite this verse and blow on his face and ears - stubbornness will decrease. This practice has to be done continuously for at least 21 days.


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